In this age of information, technology, and multi-tasking, we have lost the art of
listening. Relationships are
suffering, in spite of an abundance of communication tools at our disposal. Various names have been given to this
syndrome: “Continuous Partial Attention,” “Surfer’s Voice”, and “Absence
Presence”. We may “listen” to
someone on the phone while reading email, texting, or surfing the net. Then how do we listen and become
present to another? After all, this
may be the greatest gift we can give another.
We need to
cultivate three essential practices: silence, slowing down to reflect, and
becoming centered. Ironically,
these are the same disciplines we need to make a deeper connection with
God. Take some time each day to be
silent. A friend of mine practices
a “technology fast.” Give yourself permission to take the
time to set aside your “To Do” list.
Listen to God in His
word. Listen with an open heart
and mind to others, totally devoted to the moment. Reflect on what you and the other person think and feel. Be curious by asking questions. Relax and enjoy the moment. More importantly, enjoy the other
person.
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